Those guys are havin' a ball with you---what love!

Stacey, everyone changes when they are hit by a life-altering situation but the essence of you will always remain. You are a beautiful woman inside and out and changing certain aspects of yourself to cope with the changes you have had to endure is not a bad thing. Only you know the difficulties you experience. You are not a Klingon. You are an Earth-Angel passionate about so many good causes, passionate about your family and friends. I sometimes think that men, in general, just "don't get it". Take away that Dorks Are Us in this post and replace it with I Am A Goddess and Don't YOU Forget It. Sending you a beeg (((( hug ))))